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Having a roommate might drive you nuts when it comes to doing chores and maintaining your personal privacy. Many people, therefore, prefer to live by themselves. But think about it, as rents continue to increase, having someone to help split the potential cost of rent can either help lessen your own financial burden or allow you to afford a much nicer apartment in the neighborhood you want. The real question is - how do you find the perfect roommate? Most of the time, you spend more time with your roommate than with your significant half, and living with the wrong person is like being committed to the wrong relationship. Choose poorly, you will regret for the rest of your life; choose wisely, you will have the most amazing time in the city you love!

Don't stress out, though. We're here to help. To find a roommate, click below
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37 mins  |  98.5
600 W 150 St, Apt 21
Hamilton Heights, West Harlem, Upper Manhattan, Manhattan
$799 Share 1 Bath
By Samer ELSamad
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No Fee
 
By Owner
  Elevator
1 hour  |  91.6
East 14th street
East Village, Downtown Manhattan, Manhattan
$1,500 Share 1 Bath
Alex Kim, East Village Expert
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  Doorman · Elevator
19 hours  |  89.6
381 Metropolitan Ave, Apt 4A
Williamsburg, Northern Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$1,123 Share 2 Bath
Amanda Ezell, Williamsburg Expert
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  Laundry in Unit
12 mins  |  89.3
Downtown Doorman Luxury buildi...
Financial District, Downtown Manhattan, Manhattan
$1,430 Share 1 Bath
By Nathan Applebaum
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  755 ft² · Doorman · Elevator · Laundry in Unit
3 hours  |  86.7
132 Nostrand Avenue
Bedford-Stuyvesant, Northern Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$975 Share 1 Bath
By Lewis Tillman
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32 mins  |  84.4
E22nd Massive No Fee Roommate ...
Gramercy Park, Midtown Manhattan, Manhattan
$1,600 Share 2 Bath
Jonathan Hernandez, Gramercy Park Expert
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  1,300 ft² · Elevator
18 hours  |  83.5
607 Seneca Avenue
Ridgewood, Northwestern Queens, Queens
$867 Share 1 Bath
By Monique Rowe
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14 hours  |  83.5
705 saint marks ave
Crown Heights, Central Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$960 Share 1 Bath
Mendel Serebryanski, Crown Heights Expert
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15 hours  |  81.3
1311 Decatur St
Bushwick, Northern Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$875 Share 1 Bath
By Nick Martin
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3 hours  |  81.1
217 Bowery, Apt 6
Bowery, Downtown Manhattan, Manhattan
$2,400 Share 1 Bath
By Isaac Arakanchi
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  850 ft² · Laundry in Unit
10 hours  |  80.6
179 Russell St
Greenpoint, Northern Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$1,100 Share 1 Bath
By Melanie Boucos
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1 day  |  80.5
59 Ave 156 street
Flushing, Northeastern Queens, Queens
$950 Share 1 Bath
Bonnie Manhattan , Flushing Expert
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No Fee
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1 day  |  80.2
24 Havemeyer Street, Apt 1F
Williamsburg, Northern Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$1,267 Share 2 Bath
By Bryan Soto
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  1,300 ft²
4 hours  |  80.0
West 63
Lincoln Square, Upper West Side, Upper Manhattan, Manhattan
$1,450 Share 1 Bath
By Randy Caddle
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10 hours  |  79.6
Gramercy Park, Midtown Manhattan, Manhattan
$1,500 Share 1 Bath
By Evelina Palankerina
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  1,000 ft² · Doorman · Elevator
1 day  |  78.7
1355 Myrtle Ave
Bushwick, Northern Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$1,099 Share 2 Bath
By Sam Moritz
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2 days  |  78.5
236 Stagg St, Apt 5B
East Williamsburg, Williamsburg, Northern Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$1,500 Share 2 Bath
Tiffinie Kish, Williamsburg Expert
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1 day  |  78.5
127 Leffers Place
Prospect Heights, Northwestern Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$699 Share 2 Bath
By Senley Auguste
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2 days  |  76.3
679 Grand St, Apt 5F
East Williamsburg, Williamsburg, Northern Brooklyn, Brooklyn
$975 Share 1 Bath
By eden
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1 day  |  76.0
4 Saint Nicholas Terrace
Manhattanville, West Harlem, Upper Manhattan, Manhattan
$1,100 Share 2 Bath
By Sherif Hamoda
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Roommate Finder

More About Roommates

Having roommates has now advanced from being a pleasantry to a necessity, especially in New York City. If you're lucky, having roommates may be the most cost efficient and enjoyable living situation for you, sadly, there is no such thing as having perfect roommates and problems tend to arise when you need to share your space with others. To save yourself from future roommate issues, you might want to have a roommate contract in place to ensure a functional relationship with your roommates. The word "contract" might sound scary, but it will definitely come in handy from time to time. Make sure to cover quiet hours, visitor rules, what to share (cooking oil, coffee), what not to share (shampoo or your Chanel N°5 L'eau), and address them in the contract. You will be surprised how beneficial it could be.

However, having a roommate contract doesn't mean you'll necessarily be safe from all future roommate conflicts. Remember, communication is key to a successful, health and strong roommate relationship. You are adults, not some mind-readers or psychics. Instead of wasting time being passive-aggressive or speculating, put in the effort and take the time to tell each other how you feel. Approach your roommate and voice any issues or problems that are damaging your quality of life. Sometimes, roommates can become besties, and it's all about being open to express your feelings, whether good or bad, in a mature way.

If, unfortunately, you and your roommate do not get along with each other, and one of you intends to move out before the lease expires, do your research before you make any moves. If you plan to sublet your room, check with your landlord first. Many landlords do not allow subletting, and it would be unwise to break the lease, as they might penalize you. The penalty for breaking a lease can be anywhere around 1 to 3 months of rent. You also might have to forfeit the remainder of your security deposit. Best case scenario, one of you can stay in the apartment until the lease expires, and the landlord will give you the blessing to find someone else to sublet the room.

But what if the landlord refuses your request? This basically means that you will be stuck in the same apartment, until the lease expires. In this case, pluck up your courage and deal with your serious roommate hate. It might be awkward when you first approach your roommate, but keep in mind that it is for your own good. If the issues are more about differences in habits or personalities, be straight-forward and tell your roommate exactly what bothers you the most. Give your roommate some time to digest and express his/her concerns, and perhaps, you can reach a consensus and keep the peace until the lease expires. Again, communication is huge in a roommate relationship.

After the talk, take a vacation to reward yourself for the effort you put in, and spend some time to prepare yourself. It is never easy to live with someone, and it is even more challenging when you don’t get along with your roommate. But things will eventually come around.

Keep in mind the following things before you make the "long-term commitment":

  1. Start early.

    Rushing only makes things more complicated and difficult! Give yourself enough time to search for the right person to room with. Look beyond your friend circle, and be patient. Chances are that you'll find out more about what type of person you really want to share an apartment with once you start looking.

  2. Find out how your prospective roommates live.

    Most roommate horror stories show you how dangerous it can be to live with someone who has different living habits. Get as much information as possible - no one will be a perfect match, but ask yourself if these habits are things you can live with

  3. Ask what they expect from you.

    Just like being in a relationship, sometimes you will have to compromise to keep the peace. To make your life easier, set the right expectations first to avoid future disasters. When the time comes, answer as accurately as you can.

  4. Listen to your guts.

    Finding the perfect roommate is like dating. Sometimes, red flags and no-nos will present themselves organically. If something does not feel right to you, or if it makes you awkward or nervous, trust your instincts.

  5. Be upfront about “the money stuff”.

    Money matters can strain an otherwise happy roommate relationship. Talk to your prospective roommate about every bill, figure out how much of the rent each person is responsible for (including estimating monthly bills such as rent and utilities), and be clear about how you want it handled.

  6. Do multiple interviews.

    Remember, a roommate relationship can be really intimate, and you must be cautious. Don’t ever offer a room to someone after one meeting, and for your safety and quality of life, meet up in person before moving in together.

  7. Ask for references.

    Just as landlords will ask for references, you should ask for references from your prospective roommates, too. Speak with their previous roommates or landlords so you have all you need to know about them.

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